Girly Bloggers Night Out 22 Dec 2007

This is the most satisfied photo that I took and edited in the girls night.
The rest of photos will be waiting for the professional photographer to update. It will take some time as it had been informed.

GBN Photographer's Blog


For more information about the girls night, check it out The Girls In December's site right now.


Note: Christmas Eve and Celebration will update later on and also same goes to my KL trip. Be patience, my friends!

Jingle Bell Jingle Bell......Merry Christmas, Friends!

Friends friends friends,

Its HOHOHOHOHOHO time! Christmas is coming soon!!!! Tomorrow night its CHRISTMAS EVE!!! Expect Santa Claus to drop by your house to give you a surprise? So how many houses Santa has to go? I have no idea too. He might come to my place or might not. Should I wait? Hmm... No No No!

I should create my surprise for myself, how to celebrate Christmas this year! Last year I celebrated it with a group of friends BBQ in my friend's house. That was my first time celebrating together with my beloved one. HmmM...but this year, its gonna be totally different. We are not anymore BBQ but to have a seafood steamboat buffet in I-Lotus Restaurant with 6 people or more, the last minutes guest. The beloved one still celebrate together with me but its not MY beloved one anymore. Its the PEOPLE beloved one. HEHE! Yeah he's my ex-bf this year. Broke up with him this year. WooOo Time flies so fast. When is my next beloved one coming to celebrate with me for Christmas? HEHE! Will inform you guys, friends....

Our plan is after enjoying THE BUFFET, we gonna karaoke in my house. My house becomes Red-Box or Green Box (Singing house)? HEHE! I love singing. We used to gather in my house and sing. It had been long time ago. Now do it again!!! My best buddy asked me, did I prepare anything for the Xmas eve night in my house? OOPss I almost forget that part....hmmm ok ok I gonna buy some drinks. After singing, they must be thirsty. Other than singing, we can play games, cards and others. Have fun!!

I plan to prepare a gift for the person who attend our STEAMBOAT BUFFET on the night. Having friends sitting down and celebrating together for this special occassion is not easy because they might have other party somewhere else. So treasure the time. I love to give something to people in special occassion. I don't know why. I just love it. I love to prepare something special and give it to people based on my creativity. I love creativity. I love to give people surprise as well!!! That's me, the Jamy!!!

So are you gonna wait for Santa to drop by your house tomolo night? Other than sitting down to receive the gift, why not try to give someone a special gift, thats what we call GIVING is LOVING. Who knows you might get a surprise in return? That's your CHOICE. Think carefully now.

I would to greet my friends Janice, Jean, Mariuca, Karen, Bobo, Bobby, Rolando, Trinity, Nonnie, FL Sam, Iwan, MakeTraffic, LeeChien, NAFASG, Kenny Ng and others who I forget to mention your name (dont angry me ah!) A GREAT AND AWESOME DAY FOR YOUR CHRISTMAS 2007!!!

Trust or Not To Trust?

My lovely friends,

Today the post I am writing is about choosing to trust people saying. The people I am refering is my new maid. This morning I see a stranger, a man hiding at the back of my house, near the fence. I am watching from my parents' room window to see what this guy up to, whether he is waiting for the bus or any other bad purpose.

My house is located beside the road in the resident area. Many indonesian and other workers always walk pass by there. Its hard for my family not to worry whether these worker will intend to bring my maid out at night, starting from approaching my maid. Previously, there was an incident that my previous previous maid went out with guys at late night and came back with door locked. She slept outside. Thats when we found out what had happened.

This time, I caught the men. When I saw him standing there for a long time, I waited my new maid to open the back door and see what he gonna do. It's what I expected to be. He walked near to the fence and approached my new maid. At the same time, I also paid attention whether my new maid talked to him or not, watching her from upstair. She did not get close with the guy and she did talk with him but I donno what they are talking about.

I waited for awhile till I cant stand it anymore. I went down straight to the back and looked for my maid. I opened widely the back door and talked seriously to the guy. This is my first time talking rudely to a stranger. I recognised his face and spoke unfriendly to him, " What are you doing here?" He don't understand English. I pointed at my new maid and asked him, "Kenal kah? (You know her?)" He replied, "Yah, kawan.(Yes, friend)" My maid already went inside early and said, "Tidak kenal. Bukan kawan.(I don't know him. Not my friend)"

I stared at the guy rudely and he walked away to the other side of road to take his bicycle that had been hiding behind the bushes. What kind of guy is that.....doing something evil! I asked my maid whether she talked to him. She answered that she told the guy that she cant talk to people, saying No No No. She said that the guy kept on asking what is her name and when she can come out. I shall ask the guy, what is my maid name, since he said he knows my maid. Thats what I forget. Thats so suspicious. Saying that know my maid and then asking my maid, what's her name. Who should I trust now?

Blogging is really a nice place for me to express my feeling now. I feel much better now. If I choose to trust my maid, it means that I am trusting myself for a positive view and thought. I am focusing a positive thought. Choose to trust people is a positive energy and thought. If she really wanna turn bad in the end, thats her choice. It has nothing to do with me. I had warned her when the first day she came, not to talk to anyone or foreign workers. We don't know who is bad or good, we only can protect ourselves. I am the person who can let people to trust me so I shall choose to trust people as well. Be the trust, Be the one!

Note: I will sure reply your comment in my previous post, my friends. Don't worry. Thanks for ur caring!

I'm Away For A Moment....Pls Forgive me!

I know I had made disappointment in you, my friends that I am back again and lost again. Did not response your messages and comments. I don't wish to be in that way because I need to make a new choice. I love blogging. Its my lifetime job till I find my future husband, have children and getting old till 80+. This is the place for me to record how I choose to live in my life in every moment.

Everyday I wake up at 6am and sleep at 10pm or 11pm. I spend less than an hour sitting down in my room excluding for my sleeping hours. I am living in 2 storey terrace house. The whole day I will be hanging out with my mama to see any household matters to be arranged, otherwise go out buy the stuffs. Its the same routine everyday. I have to keep watching on my new maid till she finishes the job end of the day at 10pm. If I stay on blog, I will probably sleep late at 12. If I sleep late, I will wake up late the next morning. My mama will be the only one who in charge the household and looking at my maid. If my maid did something wrong, she gonna get angry. I sayang my mama so I take the responsible to teach my maid too together with her.

Every family got its difficulties, in term of different situation. So I believe in hope and miracle. As long as I am alive, I create hope and miracle. No matter how many choices I had made, I still believe myself that I can do it. I walk and fall down many times. Lastly, I decide to stand up and walk again. Walk, fall and stand up and walk again. Its my learning process. Every time give me different result. The important thing is I STILL BELIEVE.....

Tomorrow I will be away to KL for 6 days vacation. A bruneian blogger from dog island is flying through the sea to be landed on the Malaysia City for the first time. To see what I never see before in Brunei. A sony cybershot digital camera is ready in KL for me to collect and take a nice shot.

Before I go for vacation or away sometimes, I would like to share a video with you when you cant see me in blogging, keeping you accompany till I am back. This video is so meaningful for your whole life especially when you are down and not in a good mood. This is what I should practise each and every day to recharge my energy, so do you, my lovely friends.

The Secret To You & Me

♥ JaMiLLa ♥
Thank you for reading and viewing this post...

Your Jamy Is Back On Blog! Yipee!

Hello! Hello! Hello!

I am here reporting to my regular readers who found me lost almost one month from blogging.

WHAT? A MONTH? How dare you leave your reader alone or feel disappointed whenever they visit you? You should get punishment!!!

OK OK OK! I know. I know. I shouldnt do that but I really stucked in the middle for past few weeks. At least I announced in my "What I am doing" message box that I got final exam! I think I can earn some forgiveness from my readers, can I?

I know. During this invisible period, I had lost some readership from my loyal readers, not being updated my blog. But I believe that they will get back to me soon that I really put much effort on my blog and create close relationship with them.

But still there are few people that really concern and care about how I am doing during the past few weeks. Really appreciate each message that they leave here. Great person.

I should announce who they are.

1. Mariuca, Genie Princess who left more than 3 greetings in my cbox although I did not reply her.

2. Karen, Waterlearner who checked regularly how my exam was and give encouragement to me.

3. Janice, the sweet lady mother who really miss her dog island friend in Brunei.

Thats the top 3! I decide not to list out the rest because just in case I didnt mention you and you gonna cry out and saying this Jamy no-heart. If you did really check it out my blog regularly, do count yourself in the top 3!

Let me have space to say THANK YOU to my friends, bloggers and readers. For now, I shall explain to you all for my nearly a month disappeared blogging.......

Almost everyday went to school early morning for exam revision
with the two best companions

Hot drinks was my best buddy to wake me up
when I felt sleepy

They could be my best buddy sometimes but not all the time (feel boring)

Time & Cost Saving Lunch In School

High-Tea Break During Rainy Day

MY CHALLENGE

This is not an ordinary egg that you see in your refrigerator or the supermarket. It is a traditional egg healer method that you can reduce your heatiness or headache by rubbing or rolling it on your forehead, face, hands, body and legs after the egg is boiled. When I am sick, mama used to do that to me. Each time used up two eggs. So I am not sure how many eggs healer that I had been used.

For past few weeks, mama was not feeling well. Non-stop coughing till her body really painful. Its a dry cough and the aching made her coughing. I was deeply sad about it. Mama has a weak body condition during normal day and the coughing brought down her life. She had difficulty in taking foods because in sudden of cough that make her feel annoying. Visited 2 doctors and took injection twice that made her feel abit better.

So during this time, I took up the challenge to do what I never do it before. Such a coincidence, we sent off our maid back to Indonesia and my mama got sick. No one can do the cleaning stuff at home when all are out to work and study. We always encounter the time when many things crushed together that gonna made us burnt off.

My situation is I need to take care of mama, do the cleaning stuff and preparing for the final exam. Home is definitely not the right place for me to study because I will get influenced by her coughing. Too sadly that I had to leave her home when I decided to study in school. Sound like a bad girl right? I had no choice at all because if I stay at home doing the cleaning and taking care of mama, it will be from morning till 10pm by that time its only my free time. I tried to study overnight in Dina place, my best classmate but she had tied up with private functions at home or cousin place. Sometimes its hard to ask the reason why so many things crush together that made me cant breathe.

Only my tear can really set me free from the stress and hopeless. After a cry, I am brave enough making another decision to be a stronger me. Exam, I still need to study and revise in school and late night at home. Mama, I still need to take care of her by changing the character to be the one who rub the egg healer for her which is my first time doing that. Home stuff, I still need to arrange and prepare foods for family. Just go with the flow with my courage. Now my new maid has come and mama coughing is getting better that she can really eat. That period is really a good learning experience for me to grow. To try the thing that I don't dare to do before. Its about change. Its about growing to a better and truly me. No one have the right to judge me even myself. This is what I gonna learn.

Lastly, I appreciate the people who really care about me during that period...I hope you are one of them who I am saying right now. Thank You......